Saturday, October 29, 2011

The Aftermath

Now that Monica and I have had our very first threesome we are able to step back and look at how it went and how it has affected our relationship.  That was the biggest concern, of course, as this is new for us.  We have been talking about and intending to start adding outsiders to our sexual relationship for years and have been quite confident that we would know what we were comfortable with and not do anything that would have negative ramifications to our relationship with each other.  But an important part of that is moving slowly and gauging the effects as they happen.  We are being extremely careful.


We have been discussing our first threesome for days now and, consistently, the answer keeps coming back that we absolutely loved doing it, found it amazingly erotic and feel absolutely no weirdness or jealousy from it. In fact, our marriage feels even stronger now and our relationship with each other is doing even better than before which was pretty awesome as it was.  Not only do we feel closer to each other after having had a threesome but our own sex life, the one just between the two of us, has really gotten a boost.  We are now having sex once (or more) per day which is truly something.  Traditionally we were struggling to find the time and effort to do it once a week.  Now we are on each other like rabbits.  It is wonderful.


So the verdict is: FMF threesome was extremely positive both physically and emotionally both within the framework of the threesome and within our marriage.  Yay!


We've spoken to Darla, the unicorn who joined us, and she says that she really did have a wonderful time and is very glad that she did it and totally wants to do it again.  So it sounds like positive reviews all around.  Her actually joining us again will be the real test to see if she was just being polite or not but I am pretty confident that she is sincere.


We are now ready to move on to either another FMF or very likely an MFM.

Thursday, October 27, 2011

Monica's First Strip Club

When Monica found out that I had gone to a strip club a few weeks ago with a girl it gave her the comfort level to finally decide to go to the same club herself.  She has wanted to hit the strip clubs for years now but never makes it because of the effort of going out and the fear of the unknown.  I had not yet been to a strip club in our home city, or for that point in our own state, ever.  So I could tell her nothing about them.  Now I had first hand experience and could tell her with confidence that the club was safe, comfortable and non-threatening and, most importantly, that having a girl there was no problem at all.


So it wasn't long before Monica wanted to go to the same strip club.  We finally got a babysitter one night and off we went - dinner and a strip club.  She got all dressed up too in a short, cleavagey dress and super high "stripper" heels.


The club went really well.  We both had a good time.  It was a slow night with relatively few dancers.  I got a lap dance and she loved it.  Once I had one she was ready to try one herself.  She enjoyed her dance as well - the first one that she has ever had.  She made me get one more so that she could watch.  She really loved when the stripper rubbed her nipple against my lips.  She wanted more but we were unable to catch another dancer before we needed to get back home.


Nothing too exciting but after having gone Monica said to me: "If you can go drink at a strip club with naked girls, why would you ever go get drinks someplace else?"  To this I had no good answer.

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Our Very First Threesome (FMF)

Continued from the "Setting it Up" post below.


Darla woke me up first thing the next morning in the hotel and just said, "Okay, let's do it."


So it is really happening.  I emailed Monica to let her know that we were on for this evening.  She emailed back in disbelief that I had really talked Darla into it.  Monica was quite impressed with my powers of seduction.


Darla and I ended up having a busy morning and were unable to get on the road until mid-afternoon which was extremely annoying as we were both rather horny thinking about what we were going to be doing later in the day and Monica was emailed both of us throughout the day getting status on where we were and when we expected to be arriving.  She was, without a doubt, extremely excited about tonight's prospects.


The entire drive was spent in a heated state.  We talked both in the car and over email continuously about the plans for the evening.  Monica was getting extremely wet at home and Darla was quite wet herself in the car.  We stopped off at an adult video store en route to pick up a new BluRay title of the evening (we ended up getting Digital Playground's Prom) as well as some spare lube and a double sided dildo which I insisted that we needed to have.


Darla and I got to the house and Monica had cocktails ready and waiting for us.  Monica was horny - and I mean horny.  She was wet and practically about to explode with anticipation.  We couldn't do anything right away as the kids were still awake and I had work that needed my attention before I could do anything long and involved with the girls.  This led to a couple hours of heated anticipation while I worked and the girls drank and discussed what they planned to do.


There was extremely little, if any, awkwardness.  Maybe the nearly twenty-four hours of direct "prep time" contributed.  We were all so "ready" that any awkwardness was probably masked by that and what was not was hidden by the addition of the alcohol that Monica had provided.


It was pretty late when we finally had a chance to start.  Monica and Darla went and took a long shower together first to get "acquainted" with each other.  I took a shower in the other shower on my own.  Since Darla had never been with another woman before and Monica has not been for over a decade I knew that giving them some time together would likely help get them both more comfortable.  And it did.


Monica and Darla did some fooling around in the shower and even shaved each other (oh yeah... this is actually the first time that I have ever had Monica completely shaved!) so that they were completely bare and ready for me.  Having two girls at once was working in my favor before we even got started.


While I was waiting for them to get out of the shower I made myself comfortable on our bedroom sofa and started watching Prom which is one of the weakest porn films that I have seen in a long time.  Certainly not worth the money at all.


Before long the girls came in.  Both naked except for a towel.  Each took a leg and sat down on my lap.  Monica just watched as Darla was all over me.  Her towel was gone in an instant and almost immediately I was sucking on her tits.


It was only a minute before the girls wanted to move to the bed - they were way too ready for anything too slow.


What followed is a bit of a blur, honestly, but it was a lot of fun.  Altogether the "activity" lasted for four hours and was quite exhausting.  This has been a really long week and I was extremely short on sleep before we even got started.  The whole thing would have been much more enjoyable had I been properly rested.  I was practically sick from a lack of sleep by the time that we were well underway.


We started off with the girls using the double sided dildo.  I directed the activity which makes one feel a little like a porn director.  Watching them grind the dildo into each other was amazing and a great introduction to a threesome.  This is my first time experiencing girl on girl action in real life in addition to being my first threesome so there were a lot of "firsts" to explore on this particular occasion.


Once the girls were done with the dildo I joined in more than just running my hands over them and sucking on nipples.  We moved through positions much like they do in porn films.  We would shift every few minutes into a new position.  Sometimes it was one and one positions with the third person just helping out and sometimes it was triangular positions with everyone participating equally.


It was all incredibly hot and awesome.  Eating another girl's pussy, sucking her tits, fingering her, putting my dick in her mouth... all while my wife is watching and helping us was amazing.  That Monica was really getting off to all of it made it so much better.  That's where the real fun comes from - using the experience to get the other person off.


One thing that surprised me was that prior to getting together tonight Monica and I had discussed limits and the one thing that was definitely off limits was me kissing the girl (any girl) which, I think, is pretty common with swingers to avoid that.  We were fine with girl on girl kissing and, in fact, I required it.  I mean c'mon, girls kissing is hot!  But we were not too far into things when Monica told Darla and I to kiss - so we did.  So much for that limit.  It was fine though.  Not weird at all.  Expect a post on limits soon.


As this was my first threesome I had a mental checklist of things that I wanted to experience and we were able to hit them all.  The double sided dildo was high on the list as was having both girls blow me at the same time.  They were really into that and did not require me to request it at all.  Not only did they share my cock but discussed it and positioned themselves so that I could watch it being passed back and forth between their mouths and they could look at me while it was in their mouths.  Very, very hot.


Blow jobs, hand jobs, eating pussy, making out... we had every combination of each between each of us with the other one watching.  When Monica was getting really hot at one point she demanded that I fuck her ass - which is one of my favorite things to do so I put her on her hands and knees on the edge of the bed so that I could stand on the floor and she could keep eating Darla while I pounded her ass.


I came, leaving a nice load of cum in Monica's ass and was completely exhausted when I came off the high of being so horny.  I was barely able to stand up at that point and needed to regenerate before being able to continue on.  The girls were doing really well and going at it like champs.


I snuck off and showered for a bit - a nice hot shower to rejuvenate muscles and make me feel refreshed.  Also to get all cleaned off after doing anal on Monica.  We are pretty adventurous but ass to mouth is simlpy gross - we don't even like seeing that on porn.  It is a huge turnoff and not at all healthy.  I didn't want to miss out on any action so took the chance to clean thoroughly.  The timing of needing the shower worked out well.


After probably half an hour I came back out and got back into the action with the girls.  I did not have the energy that I did in the first two and a half hours but I was good for some more action.  I'm in the later half of my thirties and do not have the regenerative properties that I did in my youth.  Going twice in one night is pretty rare under the best of circumstances.


I'm not sure whose idea it was to set up in this way but Monica and Darla were sixty-nining with Monica's head on the edge of the bed almost hanging off.  Darla was very exposed on her hands and knees this way.  I donned a condom and stood on the side of the bed and slid it into Darla.  I was amazed to find out how tight she was.  I mean really, really tight.  Nearly anal sex tight.  It was pretty awesome.


It is important to note, for those not reading all of the "About Us" and other info to piece everything together, that this is the very first girl, other than my wife, that I have ever had sex with.  So this is a major step for us - far more than it simply being our first threesome.  We have reasons as to why we are comfortable with this and I'll post all of that another time.  But for me, this was not only the first threesome with Darla, the first with Monica and I as a couple and my first threesome of any type whatsoever but this is the first sex with someone other than Monica - ever, not just since we were married, but ever.  So a major step.


Just having sex with Darla would have been nice but making it oh so much better was that Monica was still busy licking Darla while I did it and my balls slapped Monica in the face with every thrust.  That was truly amazing. It was so submissive to make her eat Darla's pussy while watching my cock take that pussy right in front of her eyes while getting hit repeatedly with my balls.  Absolutely.  Fucking.  Amazing.


I came pretty quickly which was to be expected.  Even on my second round this was a pretty fantastic experience.  Fortunately I remained completely hard for quite some time and was able to keep doing Darla without stopping until she came in that position.  I couldn't even stand on my feet once I was done and had to lie down.  I set to assisting Darla in making Monica cum and with that we called it a night.


Monica is, as I've described it before, a marathon to make cum.  She comes hard and for a long time but generally only once in a night and only after an hour or more of activity and often much, much more.  A typical session of sex for she and I is about two hours.  I'm told that that is much longer than normal.


Darla came many times throughout the evening the first time only about fifteen minutes in.  It is nice getting someone that is so much different from Monica simply because that is part of the point of having other people join us - not for more of the norm but to get to have variety.  Darla and Monica were definitely extremely different in many ways so it was a good initial pairing, in my opinion.  Darla probably came ten or even a dozen times throughout the night.


Altogether I would say that the night was a huge success.  Everyone seemed very happy at the end of it although we were all so tired that we just had to get to sleep as quickly as possible.  Darla did not get to spend the night with us in our bed because we had house guests expected in the morning and we didn't want to accidentally sleep in and have any awkward explanations needed.  Better safe than sorry - especially as this was our first threesome.  But from how well this went I cannot imagine that this will be our last threesome. - Steve


When I checked Facebook that morning, there was a message from Darla that said "You are going to have a very nice evening."  Since Steve and I had discussed that he was going to try to set something up with Darla, I wondered if she meant what I thought she meant.  I was glad to discover that she did in fact mean that we were having a threesome that very night.  Wow!  I had a lot to do to get ready before they arrived.  My day was spent flirting with Darla via text and FB messages and generally getting extremely wet and horny.  I took a long hot shower and shaved to the best of my ability, but having never completely shaved, I really didn't know what technique to use, so there was still some hair left.  Not to worry, Darla would help me with this later.  


When Steve and Darla finally arrived I was so horny I could barely stand it, and then we had to wait for Steve to finish up some work!  Finally, the kids went to bed, Steve was done working, and the three of us were ready to get naked.  Darla and I decided to shower together so that we could get comfortable with each other, while Steve showered in the other bathroom.  Darla got into the shower first, and when I got in, she decided to jump right in and grab my breasts and kissed me.  Since I was the one with experience, I was a bit surprised, but Darla has always been assertive so really it wasn't out of character.  We kissed for a while, squeezing each other's breasts, then rubbing them against each other while grabbing each other's asses.  It was all pretty hot, and I was quickly dripping wet again.  Darla reached between us to stroke my clit, and I knew that our threesome was definitely going to work.  Before we'd done any of the actual business part of the shower, Steve came knocking.  I guess we'd lost track of the time while pawing each other, so we promised to be quick, and Darla proceeded to show me how to shave completely bare.  She actually did it for me while I watched her technique, which of course got me even wetter.  We quickly rinsed and got out, then joined Steve in the bedroom.


The rest of the night is a bit of a blur for me.  I see it in flashes like scenes from a movie, but it's hard to piece together a complete picture in my mind.  I remember eating Darla's pussy for a very long time, and then begging Steve to fuck my ass.  I was so horny that I was beyond any discomfort and took him in much more easily than normal.  I remember licking Darla's pussy for all I was worth while Steve fucked my ass, and I know I made her cum at least twice before he shot his load in my ass.


After cleaning up a bit, I returned to the bed and Darla and I decided to try 69ing because I hadn't cum yet, and she wanted to practice her skills.  We ended up sideways across the bed, which turned out to be convenient, because when Steve came back in, this is the position we were in.  He and I made eye contact and he silently asked if I wanted him to fuck Darla, and I eagerly gave my consent.  He slipped a condom on, then came up behind her, and while I watched from inches away, rammed his hard cock into her pussy balls deep.  I hadn't expected it, but when he thrust into her, he slapped me in the face with his balls, and rammed my face harder into Darla's pussy at the same time.  I was so turned on I could barely keep licking her, and over and over again he slapped my face with his balls and ground my face into her pussy lips with each thrust.  I felt so submissive letting him fuck her inches from my face, and then being continuously slapped with his balls... oh my gosh, it was just so dominant, so "I'm fucking this girl and you're going to witness it and like it" it was just so fucking hot.  When Steve finally came, my only regret was that he was wearing a condom, because it would have been absolutely perfect if he had pulled out and cum on my face, while I licked the pussy of the girl he'd just fucked.  Afterwards, I vaguely remember Darla and Steve licking me until I finally came, but for me, the ultimate moment wasn't when I came, it was when my husband fucked Darla literally right before my eyes.  That was one of the best sexual experiences I've ever had in my life, and I can't wait for Steve to fuck more girls while I lick their pussies, and I begged him to pull off the condom and cum on my face next time.  I can't wait. - Monica

Friday, October 21, 2011

Setting Up Our First Threesome

Business trips can be funny things.  On this particular occasion I had to be out of town and Monica was supposed to be traveling with me so we had a hotel room for the two of us.  At the last minute she had to cancel and a female friend, to save money, asked if she could room with me.  Of course, Monica was fine with that.  It would be silly to pay for two rooms when we could just room together.  We've all been close friends for years and it was completely utilitarian and innocent.

Before leaving on the trip Monica and I were discussing when we were going to actually invite someone to come join us.  It's been years of discussion but in the last several weeks the talk has moved very much from the theoretical to the practical.  It is clear that we are both completely comfortable with starting this now.  While talking the trip came up and I mentioned that I thought that our mutual friend who would be rooming with me was into me and that she would likely be up for a threesome with us.  Monica thought that the idea sounded nice but that it was highly unlikely that our friend would be interested.  Liking me and wanting a threesome are not the same thing, of course.  And liking a married guy and doing anything about it are also very different things.  I was pretty confident that if I suggested it that she would be interested.  Monica doubted my powers of persuasion but encouraged me to take a shot at it if I felt that I could talk her into it.  Challenge accepted.

The business trip itself went well, it was a conference and a fun one.  Lots of drinking and late nights.  That made for some opportunities to hint around and get a feel for Darla's interest level.  On the first night I got the feeling that things were moving in the right direction.  I didn't want to rush things and knew that we had time.  Best to plant the seed and let her imagination move her down the path rather than trying to lead her by the hand.

The third night at the conference is when the conversation really happened.  On the second day I was unsure if she was ready to move in the right direction.  But on day three there were clear signals and I knew that "popping the question" was certainly acceptable if not outright desired.  I mentioned the "well if you wanted to, we'd be up for a threesome tomorrow..."

I'm pretty sure that that question always brings a moment of shocked silence.  It is very hard to go from any conversation, even an openly sexual flirtation, to.... so my wife and I like alternative sex and would be interested in having you participate in our debauchery.

It only took a second for Darla to regain composer and express definite interest.  She was not absolutely, totally sure that she wanted to have a threesome with us, or with anyone, and this was very sudden.  She had never had a threesome before and she was traveling with my by car from the conference to our house three hours away the next morning so the decision was one to be made pretty quickly and the results of that decision would be basically immediate.  Threesome... tomorrow?