If you watch How I Met Your Mother then you might know an episode in which Barney goes to the Super Bowl and manages to get on national television holding a sign with his phone number on it. The number belongs to a cell phone and shortly after the Super Bowl the phone begins to ring... and ring.
What starts off as the most amazing idea to meet women ever turns into a curse as Barney is trapped believing that each successive caller may be hotter and more desirable than the last. He can never be happy with the woman that he is with because the next one might be better and there is an unlimited number of women calling. So rather than enjoying any of them he spends all of this time trying to be sure that he selects the best one.
It would seem that for Monica a similar situation is playing out. Being an active player who is actually meeting guys (and girls) makes her a very hot commodity plus we are far younger than the average swinging couple, do a lot more and with cleavage like that, well, there is just bound to be some interest. There is so much interest, in fact, that she is completely overwhelmed by the constant deluge of guys looking to get with her. The guys come in all shapes and sizes, from multiple countries, different states, all kinds of ages, you name it.
Don't get me wrong, this process is very interesting and we have been meeting a lot of very cool people. But the culling and vetting process is becoming a little cumbersome as we have so many potentially good people to sift through. It is certainly hot finding out that there is a practically limitless number of guys (and many girls as well) who are very, very interested in boning my wife and I am, apparently, very envied. But it creates a very odd situation.
Effectively, with minimal effort, Monica could be meeting a new guy every single night. Potentially more than one a night - as fast as I would be able to screen them. This causes no end of potential problems. Swinging and our lifestyle can very easily become a completely consuming activity using up every possible waking hour. Between time spent finding new people, gaining their interest, putting in the time to determine if they are worth pursuing, doing an initial screening, then the more meaningful meeting and then finally getting together - well easily we could be doing nothing else.
For me, as you would imagine, finding women or even couples looking to play is extremely hard. I am finding some but I sure do not have the queue that Monica does. She is really having fun with this, though. Can't deny that.
So now the challenge for Monica is going to be figuring out how to cut back and leverage the harem of men that she has already amassed rather than spending all of her time trying to find new people with whom she will never have time to meet up. - Steve
The real life adventures of happily married couple Steve and Monica as they explore swinging and an alternative sexual lifestyle.
Friday, January 27, 2012
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
New Pictures for January
Monica wanted some new pictures taken this weekend. Both she and I have been dieting heavily this year and every few weeks we need new clothes and now, new pictures. This is our second round of pictures of her since starting the diet. The diet has been going great and we have both lost a lot. Next project will be pics of me since we are asked for them all of the time. Soon, I promise. In the meantime...
Steve's First Night Out
When we first started "playing", Monica and I were unsure where we were going to stand on the same room / separate room decision. Monica was leaning towards same room while I was leaning towards separate room but no final decision had been made. At that time we were thinking that primarily our activities would be limited to swapping with other couples and the question seemed pretty obvious.
Fast forward to now and what we have found is that finding couples with whom to swap is hard but finding singles interested in one or both of us is, relatively, easy. So our questions and decisions are now being made from a very different perspective than the one we originally imagined.
If you have been reading the blog, you will be aware that we have been heading down the "play alone" path for some time ever since Monica began meeting guys ahead of our play sessions to give them head in anticipation of the "main event." A few weeks ago I finally got the chance for my own playing alone fun.
It was with my friend that I met online in "A Surprise Meeting", we had put our playing on hold for the holidays but we were both available now and Monica was able to stay home with the kids so that I could go out and play.
We made our plans quickly, I rented a hotel room near where she lives a town over, and headed over there around ten after the kids had gone to bed for the night. I picked up a six pack of beer just in case it was needed but left it in the car assuming that I would not want to have it with me. I also grabbed a Monster as I have been completely exhausted as of late and have energy for tonight's sessions is going to be tough.
My "date" arrived late having gotten lost trying to find the hotel. I had a book with me so I was happily reading while I was waiting. Not a big deal.
My friend came in the door and it was knock knock, "Hey, good to see you again.".... kissing standing at the foot of the bed. No time wasted there. I assure you I was ready for small talk but she jumped straight to tongue action and in under twenty seconds was stripping down ready to get it on. She left nothing for me to do, her clothes were on the floor in a flash and she was climbing in to bed.
So I got undressed and joined her in the bed. She turned on the television, I guess for background noise but with the talk shows that she was selecting it was a bit disconcerting as the television was so close to us. Not nearly as good as having porn on, that is for sure.
It only took a minute of sucking our her firm double D tits before my right hand slid down her stomach, spread her legs and was pushing a finger or two into her very wet and very ready pussy. Her pussy was shaved and eager. It was only a minute more before her first orgasm. It has been a long time since I was last with someone who comes so quickly and easily. Monica is not multi-orgasmic so I have adapted to that mode of sex which involved a long buildup and eventually a single, hopefully massive, orgasm that lasts and lasts when done right. But the orgasms tonight were fast and frequent.
Throughout the evening she probably came around twenty times. My record was making a girl come thirty-four times but that was set in around 1997 with an eighteen year old blonde that I had practice with and she only had to stop from exhaustion (hers, not mine.) It is a nice change of pace to have the rapid orgasm experience again.
And, like the blonde girl that I so adeptly pleasured all those years ago, tonight's playmate was a squirter. Now Monica is jealous. She has always wanted to play with a squirter and thinks that it is so hot that I had one fifteen years ago and she has been looking for one for a long time now. And now that I am playing with one, Monica isn't here. It will happen eventually, but she has been wanting to try it for so long now.
The squirting was not all that intense, it was just a little bit. My old squirting partner from the late 90s was a real pro which is hot and sexy but really messy and difficult to manage when you can't avoid it. But I'll cover that another time.
We had a nice time. For a women with a kid in her early forties her body was firm and her breasts were ample. She was actually taller than me as well, just by a little bit, and I am no short. I'm definitely not tall, but average for a guy.
The sex was good. I made her come from fingering her over and over and then about three times when I went down and ate her pussy. Monica will attest to the fact that my pussy licking skills have taken a leap forward in the last few weeks. Some recent stylistic changes and yielded impressive results so it was nice to get to test these out on a very willing new subject.
It was not a late night. Probably two hours of sex, tops. Once she had come... a lot, I donned my condom and put her on her hands and knees on the side of the bed so that I could stand on the floor beside the bed and penetrate her doggie style - one of my favorite positions.
Sliding my cock into her waiting, black pussy lead me to discover how small her pussy was. And I don't mean tight, it was probably average in that regards, but it was hard to fit my cock into her as her pussy interior was small and somewhat shallow. I had to work to squeeze myself in but she enjoyed it and soon I was pounding away on her.
She came once while I was pounding against her little black ass and then when I came the force of my orgasm sent her over edge into a thrashing orgasm of her own. Unfortunately she lost control of her back muscles and buckled which made it impossible for me to remain inside of her as she changed the entry angle so dramatically and squeezed me out as well with her pussy muscles.
We took a bit of a breather and talked for maybe an hour. Then she asked me to make her cum another four or five times. We called it a night and I got dressed. She wanted to stay and use the hotel, which I thought was rather odd as she meant staying in bed and watching television not showering and getting cleaned up, but whatever, we have the hotel might as well get use out of it I suppose. After I was dressed and getting ready to head out the door she grabbed my hand and slid it down under the covers and asked me to get her off one last time before I left, which I did.
And that concludes my first time playing alone. The first of many such episodes, I hope. This also was my first time having sex with a black women. And my first time having sex with someone older than myself. An adventurous night.
I got home and filled Monica in on the details. It was really late and we were tired so we fooled around for a bit in bed but didn't have sex. We saved that for the next day.
Now that both of us have managed to play alone... we can count the experiment as a success. - Steve
Fast forward to now and what we have found is that finding couples with whom to swap is hard but finding singles interested in one or both of us is, relatively, easy. So our questions and decisions are now being made from a very different perspective than the one we originally imagined.
If you have been reading the blog, you will be aware that we have been heading down the "play alone" path for some time ever since Monica began meeting guys ahead of our play sessions to give them head in anticipation of the "main event." A few weeks ago I finally got the chance for my own playing alone fun.
It was with my friend that I met online in "A Surprise Meeting", we had put our playing on hold for the holidays but we were both available now and Monica was able to stay home with the kids so that I could go out and play.
We made our plans quickly, I rented a hotel room near where she lives a town over, and headed over there around ten after the kids had gone to bed for the night. I picked up a six pack of beer just in case it was needed but left it in the car assuming that I would not want to have it with me. I also grabbed a Monster as I have been completely exhausted as of late and have energy for tonight's sessions is going to be tough.
My "date" arrived late having gotten lost trying to find the hotel. I had a book with me so I was happily reading while I was waiting. Not a big deal.
My friend came in the door and it was knock knock, "Hey, good to see you again.".... kissing standing at the foot of the bed. No time wasted there. I assure you I was ready for small talk but she jumped straight to tongue action and in under twenty seconds was stripping down ready to get it on. She left nothing for me to do, her clothes were on the floor in a flash and she was climbing in to bed.
So I got undressed and joined her in the bed. She turned on the television, I guess for background noise but with the talk shows that she was selecting it was a bit disconcerting as the television was so close to us. Not nearly as good as having porn on, that is for sure.
It only took a minute of sucking our her firm double D tits before my right hand slid down her stomach, spread her legs and was pushing a finger or two into her very wet and very ready pussy. Her pussy was shaved and eager. It was only a minute more before her first orgasm. It has been a long time since I was last with someone who comes so quickly and easily. Monica is not multi-orgasmic so I have adapted to that mode of sex which involved a long buildup and eventually a single, hopefully massive, orgasm that lasts and lasts when done right. But the orgasms tonight were fast and frequent.
Throughout the evening she probably came around twenty times. My record was making a girl come thirty-four times but that was set in around 1997 with an eighteen year old blonde that I had practice with and she only had to stop from exhaustion (hers, not mine.) It is a nice change of pace to have the rapid orgasm experience again.
And, like the blonde girl that I so adeptly pleasured all those years ago, tonight's playmate was a squirter. Now Monica is jealous. She has always wanted to play with a squirter and thinks that it is so hot that I had one fifteen years ago and she has been looking for one for a long time now. And now that I am playing with one, Monica isn't here. It will happen eventually, but she has been wanting to try it for so long now.
The squirting was not all that intense, it was just a little bit. My old squirting partner from the late 90s was a real pro which is hot and sexy but really messy and difficult to manage when you can't avoid it. But I'll cover that another time.
We had a nice time. For a women with a kid in her early forties her body was firm and her breasts were ample. She was actually taller than me as well, just by a little bit, and I am no short. I'm definitely not tall, but average for a guy.
The sex was good. I made her come from fingering her over and over and then about three times when I went down and ate her pussy. Monica will attest to the fact that my pussy licking skills have taken a leap forward in the last few weeks. Some recent stylistic changes and yielded impressive results so it was nice to get to test these out on a very willing new subject.
It was not a late night. Probably two hours of sex, tops. Once she had come... a lot, I donned my condom and put her on her hands and knees on the side of the bed so that I could stand on the floor beside the bed and penetrate her doggie style - one of my favorite positions.
Sliding my cock into her waiting, black pussy lead me to discover how small her pussy was. And I don't mean tight, it was probably average in that regards, but it was hard to fit my cock into her as her pussy interior was small and somewhat shallow. I had to work to squeeze myself in but she enjoyed it and soon I was pounding away on her.
She came once while I was pounding against her little black ass and then when I came the force of my orgasm sent her over edge into a thrashing orgasm of her own. Unfortunately she lost control of her back muscles and buckled which made it impossible for me to remain inside of her as she changed the entry angle so dramatically and squeezed me out as well with her pussy muscles.
We took a bit of a breather and talked for maybe an hour. Then she asked me to make her cum another four or five times. We called it a night and I got dressed. She wanted to stay and use the hotel, which I thought was rather odd as she meant staying in bed and watching television not showering and getting cleaned up, but whatever, we have the hotel might as well get use out of it I suppose. After I was dressed and getting ready to head out the door she grabbed my hand and slid it down under the covers and asked me to get her off one last time before I left, which I did.
And that concludes my first time playing alone. The first of many such episodes, I hope. This also was my first time having sex with a black women. And my first time having sex with someone older than myself. An adventurous night.
I got home and filled Monica in on the details. It was really late and we were tired so we fooled around for a bit in bed but didn't have sex. We saved that for the next day.
Now that both of us have managed to play alone... we can count the experiment as a success. - Steve
Thursday, January 19, 2012
Monica's First Night Out
Tyler and I had a lot of fun together during our car meeting, and during our 3some, so we've decided that he will be a regular for as long as it suits us both. We thought it would be fun to meet just the two of us, so Tyler invited me over to his place. I dressed in my black thigh-high suede boots, a black lace thong, a lace zebra print bra and a short, low-cut dress (This would later become my go-to seduction outfit, lol). When I arrived, Tyler met me in his parking garage and walked me to his apartment. He had just worked out, so he got me settled on his couch with the T.V. remote while he showered. When he was done, he came out and took another look at me, then asked me to stand up and turn around so that he could get a better view of my outfit. With a "Wow, you look sexy!" he invited me to sit down next to him again and we started making out. He told me that I looked so good he almost didn't want to undress me, but then lifted my dress over my head to grant him better access to my breasts. My bra came off next so that he could suck on my nipples hard, the way I like it, but when he began fingering me, my panties stayed on (Tyler has a thing for panties, and likes to play with them on for as long as possible). We made out for at least an hour with him fully clothed and me in just my panties and tall boots, which made me feel oh so naughty and very hot. At some point, Tyler pulled me on top of him so that I was straddling him while we kissed. He began kissing my neck and it felt so good, that I was surprised when he pulled back, looked down and said "Oh shit, Steve's gonna kill me!" He had left an ENORMOUS hickey right where my neck meets my right shoulder. I told him not to worry about it, and I actually liked that he felt possessive enough to mark me that way.
We moved to the bedroom so that we could have more room, and that's when I decided to take off my boots, because I didn't want to wear shoes in his bed. He took off his clothes and joined me on the bed, and I started sucking his cock, determined that he was going to cum more than once that night. At this point I should mention that I had gotten waxed for the first time the day before, and then waxer was rather careless about it, and ended up ripping skin off of my labia minora very near to my clit on the right side. This put a bit of a damper on our activities, because it was still rather painful to the touch at that point. Tyler did attempt to finger me gently enough to make me cum, but I just wasn't able to because I couldn't relax enough due to my injury. So anyway, I sucked Tyler's cock until he blew a large load down my throat which I managed to swallow.
We snuggled for a while and talked until Tyler rolled over and took my panties off. After donning a condom he spread my legs and proceeded to pound me hard in missionary. I lifted my legs up higher so that he could go deeper, and his biceps bulging, he used his arm to hold my leg in place. I found this to be an incredibly hot move and demonstration of strength, and he was hitting my g-spot with every thrust so it felt great, but I just couldn't cum in that position. We decided to try me riding cowgirl, and after a long time of this, Tyler came again, but stayed hard so that I could keep riding him. When I got tired, I decided I just wasn't going to be able to cum, so after a bit more snuggling, I got dressed and Tyler walked me back to my car.
When I got home Steve was waiting for me. We climbed into bed, and after fucking in cowgirl for a while, I asked him to do me from behind until he came. Finally, Steve made me cum by gently using my toy after which, we snuggled up and went to sleep.
Quick Update
Hi everybody. Yes we are still alive and still in the swing set. As a matter of fact, we've been quite busy little bees lately, hence the significant lack of posts recently. As a quick recap: I met Tyler at his place for the first time, Steve met his new lady friend at a motel, Tyler came over for a 3-way, I met a new guy online and he came over for some fun in our driveway (OMG SO HOT!!), that same new guy came over for a 3-way and last but not least, Tyler is scheduled to come over tonight. Whew! Lots to tell you all, so please stay tuned!
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